Gene Hackman Remained Active and Engaged in Life Despite Health Challenges

SANTA FE, N.M. — Gene Hackman, the celebrated Oscar-winning actor, consistently resisted the notion of slowing down in his later years, as recounted by friends and acquaintances from his nearly four-decade residence in Santa Fe. Hackman, alongside his wife Betsy Arakawa Hackman, became a well-known figure in the community.

Stephen Marshall, a retired FBI agent who trained the couple through a community outreach program, shared insights into Hackman’s feelings about aging. Marshall described the actor as being visibly troubled by the changes in his appearance, both in life and on screen. He expressed, “Gene was bothered by aging. He didn’t like being old, and seeing himself on film bothered him because he knew he didn’t look like that anymore.”

Marshall remembered one occasion when he invited the Hackmans to a screening of Hackman’s film “Night Moves,” but the invitation was gently declined. He recounted, “Betsy said Gene broke into a cold sweat when she brought it up; he just didn’t want to be part of it, and I respected that decision.”

Even in social settings, Gene preferred to blend in rather than draw attention to his celebrity status. Marshall recalled an outing in which he noticed people recognizing Hackman. When asked how he felt about it, Hackman remarked, “Yeah, but now they add, ‘And he got so old.’“ Marshall noted that despite Hackman’s concerns about aging, he believed the actor looked great.

A Special Connection

Marshall first crossed paths with Gene and Betsy at a picnic event marking the FBI’s centenary. Through their growing friendship, he trained them in various practices, including shooting at a range. At the end of one academy, Betsy took the initiative to invite Marshall to dinner, solidifying their connection.

As the years passed, Marshall noted that he saw less of the couple as Gene began experiencing age-related issues. “They were going out less,” he observed, highlighting how the couple’s once active social life had diminished.

Sadly, Gene Hackman passed away around February 18 due to complications from hypertensive and atherosclerosis cardiovascular disease, with significant factors linked to Alzheimer’s disease. He was reportedly alone in their home for about a week after Betsy’s passing, which was caused by hantavirus pulmonary syndrome.

Lasting Impressions of an Icon

Despite the couple’s reclusive nature, many friends underscored their vibrant engagement in life. Mike Anaya, a sports medicine specialist, commented on Hackman’s formidable fitness regimen, stating, “At 84, Gene had a background in the Marines and used to box. He was a tough guy who knew what to do.”

Initially engaging with Gene through rehabilitation for a shoulder injury, Anaya found Hackman’s dedication to fitness both impressive and inspiring. They worked together on exercises tailored to build stability and balance, allowing Gene to stay physically active.

Notably, Gene’s passion for physical activity didn’t end with boxing. He took up golf under the instruction of Mike Putnam. The golf instructor fondly remembered how Hackman insisted on being called by his first name, creating an approachable and friendly rapport. During their lessons, Putnam observed Hackman’s commitment and determination in learning the sport.

“Gene was determined to learn golf, even acknowledging that it was harder than anticipated,” Putnam remarked with a laugh. “Betsy, with her athleticism, took to the game more quickly, which sometimes frustrated Gene. Seeing their dynamic was delightful.”

A Legacy of Friendship

Gene also shared his artistic talents by gifting several paintings to friends, including Putnam. Each piece, accompanied by heartfelt notes, reflected his appreciation of their friendships. Stuart Ashman, another friend from the community, recounted how he received a painting from Hackman after delivering fresh eggs from his farm. This exchange symbolized the warmth and personal touch Gene brought to his relationships.

As Gene’s physical activities slowed down, Aaron Lenihan shared that Betsy strived to keep him engaged and healthy. They regularly worked on puzzles and enjoyed yoga sessions via Zoom. This commitment to shared activities underscored their supportive and loving relationship.

Community Engagement

Beyond their private lives, the couple remained involved in their Santa Fe community. They were regular faces around town, with Gene participating in local events and committees. Jennifer LaBar-Tapia, the Santa Fe Film Commissioner, expressed how Gene embraced his role as a community member rather than solely a Hollywood icon. He became known for his contributions to the local arts scene and business ventures.

Gene’s profound love for the outdoors also included hobbies such as fly-fishing. Ivan Valdez, a local shop owner, fondly recalled guiding Hackman on fishing trips, describing him as a personable and engaging companion. Their shared conversations often veered into deeper topics, strengthening their bond beyond mere recreational activity.

In addition, Andy Wells, a retired military pilot, reminisced about training Hackman to renew his pilot’s license, and the camaraderie that developed between the couple and himself. It wasn’t uncommon for them to meet for other adventures in Santa Fe after their lessons.

A Fitting Tribute

As Gene Hackman’s career waned, his relationship with Betsy flourished, often leaving a notable mark on those fortunate enough to know them. Friends seldom forget the actor’s dedication to fitness, the kindness he extended to those around him, and the genuine friendships he built in Santa Fe. His legacy extends beyond his cinematic achievements and into the lives he touched through his authenticity and generosity.

Though Gene and Betsy’s lives became increasingly private in their later years, their impact on friends and the Santa Fe community continues to resonate. The memories shared by those who knew them showcase the essence of their partnership, celebrating not just Hackman’s illustrious career but also his role as a devoted husband, friend, and neighbor who cherished every moment he had.