Jim Daly Defends Focus on the Family Against SPLC Label, Emphasizes Love Over Hate

In an exclusive interview with Fox News Digital, Jim Daly, President of Focus on the Family, responded to the Southern Poverty Law Center’s recent categorization of his organization as a hate group. He described the label as “discouraging,” “dangerous,” and symptomatic of broader cultural issues in society today.

Founded in 1977 by Dr. James Dobson, Focus on the Family is a prominent Christian nonprofit based in Colorado. The organization provides a range of services including counseling, crisis intervention, parenting resources, and foster care assistance.

Daly highlighted that Focus on the Family reaches approximately six million radio listeners and millions more through its digital platforms. The organization’s mission aims to support parents in their roles while promoting Christian values.

SPLC’s Controversial Classification

The labeling by the Southern Poverty Law Center places Focus on the Family alongside groups associated with white supremacy and violence. Daly argued that this judgment reflects a troubling aspect of contemporary culture, where dissenting opinions are marginalized.

“The Southern Poverty Law Center made this decision based on criteria known only to them, including us on a hate list,” he stated. “This exemplifies what is wrong with our culture today; we must be able to discuss differing views without demonization.”

At the heart of the SPLC’s criticism lies Focus on the Family’s commitment to traditional marriage. Daly articulated their position clearly: “Our Christian teaching supports marriage between one man and one woman, and we intend to advocate for that belief.” He recognized that societal values are evolving, but emphasized that the organization will not forsake its scriptural foundations to conform to changing cultural norms.

Risks Associated with Hate Labels

Daly expressed concern over the repercussions of being labeled a hate group. He recalled the 2012 shooting at the Family Research Council, another Christian organization similarly designated by the SPLC. The shooter later indicated he was inspired by the SPLC’s hate map, which prompted serious alarm.

“The individual stated that his motivations were sparked because the Family Research Council was classified as hateful by the SPLC,” Daly noted. “This sort of labeling can lead to extremely dangerous outcomes.”

In a dire reflection of the situation, Daly reported that within 24 hours of the SPLC’s announcement, Focus on the Family faced protests. “We encountered demonstrators at our doorstep, creating a hostile environment for our employees. Consequently, we had to enhance security measures on our campus,” he recounted, emphasizing the serious risks such labels can pose.

Commitment to Service Remains Unwavering

Despite the challenges, Daly reaffirmed Focus on the Family’s dedication to its mission. The organization engages in various efforts, including fostering care and providing pregnancy support services.

As a foster parent himself, Daly shared his personal experience. “My wife and I have been foster parents for 15 years, and we actively support pregnancy resource centers by providing ultrasound machines,” he explained. He highlighted the positive impact of their work, revealing that last year, the organization assisted 140,000 couples in navigating marital crises and helped 540,000 couples strengthen their marriages.

A Call for Understanding and Dialogue

In a pointed inquiry directed at the SPLC, Daly asked why the organization would target a group delivering so much good in society. “It is perplexing to label us a hate group when our work positively affects people’s lives,” he stated. “This perspective makes no logical sense.”

Daly clarified that Focus on the Family does not seek political leverage or engage in culture war rhetoric; rather, their focus remains on the gospel message. “This is not hate; it embodies the love of Christ aimed at helping individuals adhere to God’s design for marriage and parenting,” he explained.

However, he acknowledged the growing misinterpretation of their message amid a cultural climate that often punishes firm theological convictions. He recalled an insightful dialogue he had with the late Pastor Tim Keller and a group of gay rights activists in New York City. “Tim Keller wisely remarked that New York City thrives because people strive to avoid provocation and instead engage in meaningful dialogue. We can coexist and seek common ground,” Daly elaborated.

The Future: Considering Legal Options

When questioned about potential legal action against the SPLC, Daly confirmed that they are carefully considering their options. “There should be accountability for organizations that create hate lists based on flawed assessments,” he argued. “Should this escalate to court, I believe it would be challenging for them to defend a defamation suit.”

Despite the controversy, Daly struck an optimistic tone regarding the response from the community. He emphasized that the majority of feedback they’ve received is not anxiety or financial concerns, but rather an outpouring of support from those who have benefited from their services. “Individuals who truly know us understand our mission and the positive impact we make,” he asserted.

Fostering a Culture of Grace

Daly urged believers to respond with integrity to societal hostility. He cited Romans 2:4, which speaks to God’s kindness leading to repentance. “It is essential to engage with those filled with animosity and to find common ground, revealing their underlying hurt and pain,” he remarked.

For churches grappling with how to interact with culture without compromising their beliefs, Daly offered a powerful challenge. “Do not only preach orthodoxy; live it out,” he advised. He added, “Imagine if every church adopted a model where one family per church engaged in foster care. We could dramatically change the landscape of waiting children in foster care.”

Daly expressed his hope for a day when headlines celebrate the Church’s success in addressing societal needs. “I dream of the day when we see a headline saying ‘Christian Church Eradicates Foster Care Waiting List.’ That vision drives my passion every day,” he concluded.