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Margaret Qualley Shares How Southern Etiquette Helped Her Capture Jack Antonoff’s Heart

Margaret Qualley Shares How Southern Etiquette Helped Her Capture Jack Antonoff’s Heart

Margaret Qualley, the talented daughter of renowned actress Andie MacDowell, has recently revealed how embracing Southern girl etiquette played a pivotal role in winning over her husband, Jack Antonoff. The couple tied the knot in a star-studded ceremony in August 2023, a testament to their enduring romance.

Antonoff, a celebrated music producer known for his collaborations with artists like Taylor Swift, has captured Qualley’s heart. In a candid interview, the star of “The Substance” discussed the old-fashioned traditions that guided their relationship in its early days.

The Beginning of Their Love Story

Qualley opened up about the initial stages of her romance with Antonoff during a conversation with Cosmopolitan. She recounted how he was the one to declare his feelings first, saying “I love you” at a critical moment in their relationship.

“I’m very old-school about stuff like this,” Qualley emphasized. “I would never put myself out there first. I never text twice. Initially, I would always follow Southern girl etiquette, but now that we’re married, I can text him anything at any time. We have continuous conversations where he feels like my human diary.”

How Their Romance Blossomed

Qualley and Antonoff’s paths crossed in 2021 as the world began to emerge from the COVID-19 pandemic. Reflecting on their first meeting, she described how their conversation flowed effortlessly. “We saw each other on a roof, and we just started talking and never stopped,” she shared. The couple enjoyed long walks around New York City, with Qualley particularly fond of Washington Square Park, deeming it the perfect place for love to flourish.

They commemorated their love on August 19, 2023, in a beautiful ceremony held in New Jersey. Their guest list included numerous A-list celebrities, showcasing the couple’s prominence in the entertainment industry.

A Relationship Built on Comfort and Security

In her relationship with Antonoff, Qualley has found a deep sense of safety and comfort. She candidly expressed feelings of loneliness in previous relationships, stating, “In every other relationship I’ve ever been in, I still felt really lonely because I wasn’t with my person. I don’t feel like that anymore. Jack makes me feel safe and comfortable.”

Qualley’s journey to self-acceptance has also been significant. “I spent so many years trying to be someone’s perfect girl, and that girl changed over and over again,” she explained. However, she recognizes the importance of authenticity in her relationship, clarifying, “I can’t lie to Jack. He would see through it, so I just have to be myself.”

A Childhood of Unusual Circumstances

Being raised by two prominent figures in the entertainment industry, Qualley’s upbringing was unique. Her mother, Andie MacDowell, and father, former model Paul Qualley, divorced in 1999, leaving her to grow up in North Carolina with her mother.

She recounted her childhood experience, saying, “I grew up always being like, ‘Well, it’s just normal to me. She’s my mom. So, it’s my normal life.’ But also, I knew it was weird.” Qualley attended a regular school and had typical friends, adding a layer of normalcy to her extraordinary life.

Transition to Stardom

Qualley’s rise to fame took off with her role in HBO’s “The Leftovers” in 2014, which paved the way for subsequent accolades. She has featured in renowned projects like “Fosse/Verdon,” “Poor Things,” and most recently,