The Weekend View Hosts Champion the Rewards of Motherhood Amid Controversy

The Weekend View hosts responded to pop star Chappell Roan’s recent remarks that likened motherhood to hell, defending the joys and values of parenthood during Saturday’s episode.

Roan, celebrated for her hits such as Pink Pony Club and Good Luck, Babe!, sparked outrage among pro-family commentators after suggesting that her friends with young children are enduring joyless lives.

In her appearance on the Call Her Daddy podcast last week, Roan discussed her friendships with people from her Midwestern hometown, recognizing that they lead very different lifestyles. She remarked that the experience of motherhood seemed overwhelmingly negative.

She declared, “All of my friends who have kids are in hell. I don’t know anyone, I actually don’t know anyone who’s happy and has children, at this age. I have not met anyone who’s happy, anyone who has light in their eyes, anyone who’s slept.” Roan’s candid expressions ignited further discussions about the realities of parenting.

Hosts Push Back Against Negative Perceptions of Parenthood

Co-host Sara Haines took a stand against Roan’s assertion, emphasizing that while parenting can indeed be demanding, it also offers significant rewards. Haines explained, “The funny thing is, it would be like telling someone about your breakup and then saying, ‘I’m never dating again.’ There are good parts to it.”

She shared her own uplifting experiences as a mother, stating that her role has granted her an unprecedented sense of purpose.

Reflecting on the Challenges and Rewards of Raising Children

Sonny Hostin joined the discussion, resonating with Haines’ sentiments. Although raising children can entail hard work, Hostin fondly recalls the memories created during her parenting years. “I was an older mom,” she told viewers. “The days are really long. But in retrospect, the years are quick. And I look back on that time period so fondly.”

She yearned for the ages her children experienced, indicating a deep connection to the past. “I miss the ages of like five and eight. I miss almost every single thing,” Hostin admitted.

Alyssa Farah Griffin Offers a Different Perspective

Alyssa Farah Griffin, another co-host, acknowledged that she once shared Roan’s perspective during her mid-20s. Griffin revealed her excitement about becoming a mother now, reflecting on how her views have evolved. “Honestly, I felt exactly like Chappell Roan at her age… I wouldn’t have said it as publicly, but I thought, ‘Ooh, how are they doing that? It looks miserable.'”

She expressed her eagerness to embrace motherhood and noted that personal circumstances often influence individuals’ feelings about parenting. Griffin stated, “I don’t have a single person I know who’s a mom is like, ‘I wish, I regret that. I wish I hadn’t been a mom.’ I’ve never met anyone like that.”

Diverse Opinions on Motherhood Acknowledged

While the hosts fervently advocated for the joy and purpose found in motherhood, they also recognized that parenting may not be suitable for everyone. Haines recounted a friend’s candid admission about her struggles with being a mother. “I have a friend that admitted to me she would never give back the two kids she had. She loves them dearly. But now that she knows what parenting looks like, she doesn’t know if she was cut out for it. I really respected her honesty.”

These discussions highlighted the varied experiences women have with motherhood, affirming the necessity for openness around personal choices. Haines remarked that parenting is not a universal calling and should not feel obligatory. “It is some freaking hard work. And if you are not really die-hard, you want it more than anything in the world, maybe you’d have a better life if you didn’t have it,” she concluded.

Advocating for Respect and Understanding Among Women

Ana Navarro emphasized the importance of solidarity among women regarding family planning decisions. She urged, “Let’s try not to judge each other as women, right? If some women want to have kids early, go right ahead. If some want to have them late, great. If they want to not have kids, fine. To each their own.” Navarro’s remarks sparked a vital conversation about the diverse choices women face in their parenting journeys.

The Weekend View continues to be a platform for discussing pressing societal issues, offering insightful perspectives on motherhood, parenting, and the varied definitions of family.